What woman doesn’t want to always be in the center of attention, attract the views and rave reviews of the opposite sex. Various tricks and tricks are used. However, few women know how to properly use the secrets of seducing men, confusing this with a banal temptation.
What is the difference between seduction and seduction
Before deciding to seduce a man, you need to understand that there is a certain difference between seduction and seduction.
Seduction is the ability to force a man to commit an act that under certain circumstances he would not do. Seduction is the ability to provoke a man to such actions that are contrary to his principles.
However, this is not the main difference between seduction and seduction. Two crucial factors must also be remembered:
- If a woman manipulates a man’s weaknesses, then she seduces him;
- If she uses not manipulation, but the power of persuasion, then the woman seduces.
As a seduction, women use the manipulation of sexual desire, pride, sensitivity of a man, often flattery is used. But seduction requires more serious measures in order to convince the opposite sex to do something that fundamentally contradicts nature and internal psychological attitudes.
Secrets of seducing men
The main thing that men pay attention to is appearance. However, often just a beautiful shell is not enough, especially if the woman’s goal is seduction.
With a beautiful model appearance, you can seduce, but not make a man go against his own principles.
In addition to appearance, a huge role is played by:
- Gestures;
- Behavior;
- Vote;
- Words and phrases used;
- Ability to flirt;
- Gait;
- Character.
Regarding the character, everything is quite simple. You can captivate a man even without special tricks, if you have the following features: understanding, support, devotion, acceptance of all the features of your chosen one, along with advantages and disadvantages.
Gesture psychology
Every woman knows the art of flirting: someone more, and someone less. Nevertheless, almost at the genetic level in women this skill is inherent. It is important to be able to use it, and with wisdom.
Secret 1: preening
Preening is perhaps the easiest method, not only to seduce a man, but also to draw his attention to himself. It could be:
- Twisting locks of hair on a finger;
- A slight wave of the head;
- Correction of clothes, touching the waist, hips, etc.
The essence of this method is that each movement is as natural as possible, and does not look like a production in a theater. Otherwise, it is easy to be disclosed.
Secret 2: NLP
NLP - neurolinguistic programming, a peculiar form of modeling behavior. And do not be afraid of a long and complex name. In fact, NLP is a fairly effective technique developed by psychologists and psychotherapists.
The essence of NLP is to tie positive associations of men to female gestures.
For example: you can tell a man a joke and when he smiles, it is easy to squeeze him by the elbow. Then repeat this several times. Thus, the next time the woman takes her partner under the elbow again, he will have pleasant associations and a smile will appear.
Secret 3: the position of the legs and arms
Back in the days of kings wrist show women were considered a whole art. It is enough to recall only the history of Japan and the stories that a skilled geisha could drive a man crazy by only showing his wrist. And all this is not without reason. Therefore, you always need to wear a thin bracelet or watch on your hand, occasionally scrolling and tugging it.
The position of the legs is also very important.. For example, recall the “Basic Instinct” with Sharon Stone. No, it is effective to cross legs, as the heroine is not necessary, but the pose with crossed legs is considered the most attractive for the male.
It is enough to throw one foot over the other and throw the shoe off the heel, playfully swinging it on the weight. The effect is guaranteed!
Secret 4: looks and a smile
To look at the object of sighing is obviously a losing affair. A man may be interested in a casual look, as if casual, a little bashful because he was noticed. A close look into the eyes is unacceptable at the first meetings, a man should want to catch him.
A smile should also be somewhat restrained, by no means frank, but as if gifted stealthily. Do not smile at all 32 teeth, you need to adhere to mystery.
The bottom line is that men are carried away by a riddle. And a woman with such a look and slight crafty smiles is definitely hiding something!
Words and voice
When a woman knows how to keep herself in the presence of a man, the time for conversation comes. It is at this stage that you can destroy the entire effect created. Therefore, in order to maintain position and seduce the chosen one, you need to adhere to specific tricks.
Secret 5: Voice Tone
According to studies, men find the most attractive velvety low female voice. By no means bass or smoky hoarse baritone. A woman's voice should sound like the purring of a cat, not the croaking of a raven.
The same goes for excessively high female voices. It used to be that a thin, sonorous voice is most attractive, as it is associated with youth and freshness. In fact, this is so if the voice is high in moderation and not shrill. Such voices are suitable for seduction, but not seduction.
Secret 6: the right topics for conversation
Of course, to show your intelligence, sometimes it seems the best way to captivate a partner. However, if a woman decided to seduce a chosen one, then she should avoid serious and difficult topics in communication.
The best topics for conversation will be those that one way or another relate to a man, his interests, hobbies. Difficult working moments should also be avoided.
At the same time, one should not slip into outright stupidity - it repels. Communication should be easy, easy and natural. During a conversation, it is best to lean slightly towards the chosen one and maintain eye contact. At such moments it is most convenient to use the principle of NLP.
A woman should speak calmly, slowly, “with feeling, with sense, with arrangement”. You should not rush to convey any information to the interlocutor. Talking with her should be a slow pleasure, not a quick run.
Woman behavior
The way a woman knows how to keep herself in society and alone with a man is not only an important criterion for evaluating her companion, but also another life hack for seducing the stronger sex.
Secret 7: gait
Oh, this famous walk of Marilyn Monroe, which turned its head in millions of men! But did you know that she is the result of long work and daily training? But the way it is. The immortal sex symbol of the 20th century, the blonde beauty Marilyn actually worked out her gait for a long time and painstakingly, and not without reason.
Gait always attracts the attention of men, whether it is gentle or vice versa rude. But to seduce a man, you need to walk smoothly, gracefully. The gait should be smooth, as if sliding, so that I would like to catch it, but nothing came of it.
This is a real game of “prey and predator”, only the role of a predator is actually given to a woman who knows how to captivate with her gait.
Secret 8: appearance
When deciding on the seduction of the chosen one, one should not immediately put on the most candid outfit, so that there are more cuts, and the neckline is deeper. In fact, such a vulgar style will make a man desire a woman, but no more than a couple of times.
A woman should adhere to her own style of dress and make-up.
True, a few rules are added to this:
- Makeup should be minimalistic, but with emphasis on the eyes or lips;
- It is better to lift the hairstyle upward, leaving a few strands to frame the neck;
- Shoes should be on a low hairpin;
- It is best to choose one-piece outfits;
- Skirts and dresses are the best choice;
- No mini cuts above the thigh and an excessively deep neckline;
- An outfit with an open back would be ideal.
Not so hard to remember. And even if the outfit seems a little unusual, it’s all the same for the first time, until the chosen one is captured.
Secret 9: getting out of your comfort zone
And you need not do it yourself, but take the man out of the comfort zone! It is necessary to be unpredictable, elusive, to surprise and provoke the chosen one to new bright emotions.
The secret is that each time the chosen one looks at the woman with a new look, as if seeing for the first time.
It is important not to overdo it, so as not to tire your companion. Men like women with a twist, secret, active and active. However, do not forget that the main one in the pair is still a man.
Secret 10: lack of pretense
Sincerity in everything: in movements, in words, in gestures, in breathing - this is the trump card in the hands of any seducer. Absolutely everything should be natural, without pretense. Of course, pretense will be, but it is important that the man does not understand and not notice.
If you notice, you don’t need to try to justify yourself, just repeat the playful look and shift his attention to something else. For example, on how female hands stroke his tie or the edge of a shirt.
To seduce a man is an art, but having the necessary information, any woman can become a real craftswoman. Before you start trying all of the above secrets and techniques on others, it’s better to rehearse them at home in front of the mirror to look natural!
