A woman is the inspirer of a man. With her beauty, kindness and femininity, she is able to give a man the strength of the mountain to collapse. But what if the woman over the years gained extra pounds and is no longer inspiring? Should a husband ask her to lose weight?
Firstly, it’s worth considering why it has grown fat. There are wives who live only on the provision of a husband; they themselves refuse to work.
Perhaps in this case it would be nice to tell the woman that she could do something, add activity to her life and diversify it. In other words, maybe she grew fat from a good life and from the fact that she does nothing?
Secondly, did she try to lose weight? Probably rarely you will meet a woman who does not see that she is getting fat. Perhaps she herself dreams of losing weight, trying, but nothing comes of it. In this case, the husband, instead of moralizing, should support his wife and offer her to change the methods by which she is losing weight.
Thirdlyand husband still nothing? It happens that a man has very high demands. A woman works hard, she pulls children on herself, takes care of the house. All this leaves an imprint on her appearance. Husband, instead of sharing responsibilities around the house, begins to nostalgic about what kind of figure she had 5, 10, 15 years ago.
Be honest with each other. It takes courage. Women are very vulnerable when it comes to figure. And if a man wants to preserve the marriage and preserve the relationship, he needs to think carefully before talking about the figure. Perhaps he himself is not perfect and you just need to understand that the years take their toll and we all are not getting younger.
And could you tell a loved one that it would not hurt him to lose 20 kg? Share your opinion in the comments.
