Being born, children come to our world absolutely clean and open to everything new. And it depends on you and what they grow up: generous or mean, envious or self-sufficient, gentle or rude.
Scientists have not come to a consensus, what influences the formation of a person’s personality to a greater extent: biological factors (inclinations) or social (public attitudes). Of course, each newborn already has its own characteristics of temperament, abilities and inclinations, transmitted to them by their ancestors.
But with the passage of life, under the influence of society, additional character traits are added to them. It is the totality of heredity and upbringing that makes individuals so unique and vivid.
Children make the biggest leap in development from 0 to 3 years. If in the age period from birth to year, parents need to take care of the full physical development of the baby, then from 1 to 2 years it is important to pay attention to the formation of speech and the formation of a harmonious picture of the world.
Methods and tasks of raising a child from 1 year to 2 years
By his first birthday, the baby is trying to walk, can say a few words. Success is simply phenomenal, but the most interesting is yet to come. Suddenly, your baby began to act up, insistently demanding something that is not yet under the force.
Do not be scared and despair. This is the crisis of one year, in the literature he has many names: "I myself", "period of disobedience." The bottom line is one thing: your baby is “intoxicated” with his amazing achievements, it seems to him that he can do more.
Therefore, he concentratedly taps on the computer keyboard, spreads his mother’s lipstick on the wall, reaches for a boiling pot and flatly refuses to dress. A difficult stage for parents.
But important for the transition to the next stage of mental growing up. The main task is to translate unbridled destructive energy into creative and peaceful.
To dangerous aspirations, find an adequate replacement. In this difficult matter, you can be helped by a sense of humor, creativity and the ability to play.
Physical and psychological parenting secrets
The main activity of the peanuts in the year 2 and 3 is a game. With the help of simple nursery rhymes, poems accumulated by many generations, you will greatly simplify your life. Now the child cannot organize interesting entertainment on his own.
He can consider objects for a long time, carry out simple manipulations. Show him all the possibilities of toys. As a chrysalis can walk, a machine can transport goods, a frog jump. Together treat a “sick” bear, cook dinner for a bunny.
Do not forget to carefully monitor the fun. This will be a lesson to you. The concept of the world and the family is reflected in the children's game. Observation will allow you to correct or eliminate negative attitudes or perceptions in time.
Proper parenting - how to raise children
Each culture has its own opinions on methods and styles of education. But there is one thing in common. This is Love. Accepting your child as he is. Give them much needed attention, care, affection. From one to two years, the baby is still very small, communication with parents, especially with mom, is strong and unbreakable.
Even carried away by any business, your bloodline always tries to keep mom or dad in sight. Answer them the same. Providing support, empathy, you give your little one confidence and courage.
To love and fulfill all the whims - things are different. Do not confuse. If you have a boy from kisses, hugs and other expressions of his feelings, he will not become less courageous in the future. And with their shortage, it will probably be notorious, irritable and indecisive.
This is confirmed by scientific observations of children who were brought up in orphanages.
How to raise a child in a year of recommendation
After living with you for a year, the baby learns a lot. Now this is not the baby who slept for a long time, ate, and then fell asleep again. Now he needs more freedom, but he is not going to part with you either.
This stage is not in vain called the "skirt", babies always strive to be near, repeat everything. It's amazing how much he does. The comb fell into the hands - trying to comb, knocking on her head. Dad grabbed the phone - holds it to his ear. He took the remote control and sends it to the TV.
They copy literally everything, consider adult behavior to be standard. There is a good old truth - raising a child begins with himself. Watch yourself. How do you behave when something fails? And when do you come home tired from work? Be honest with yourself, this is your child.
If something upsets you in his behavior, remember that it was you who awarded him. It should be noted that we are talking about children without medically determined deviations in behavior.
Raising a child at 2 years old
The two-year-old is already doing the most. The repertoire has a stock of words with which it can communicate with you.
The movements are more oriented and confident. It's time to teach yourself to perform the necessary hygienic procedures, clean up toys, eat carefully.
Wear clothing. At this time, often children begin to attend kindergarten. Try to instill all these skills in advance, then he will feel calmer in the children's team.
Features of education
Features of the development and upbringing of children of 1 year of age by gender are practically the same. But two-year differences should be. Raising a boy of two years is important strong, courageous, but not due to the alienation of feelings.
You must show your loving and caring attitude: talk, kiss, stroke. By the age of two, the boys are very active, often bruising and bumps, but this is not a reason to limit physical training.
The upbringing of a girl of two years is focused on the development of creative abilities. They are more important aesthetic side.
Make her compliments, only sincerely, without falsehood.
Mistakes in education
- Inconsistency of actions of others. One prohibits, the other encourages it. It’s difficult for a child to learn a lot of rules and norms of behavior. Do not create additional obstacles yourself.
- Accusations and threats. Of course, the boundaries of what is permitted are needed, but if they are violated, one should not overly bully a child. After all, you want to grow a confident, initiative citizen.
- Mood swings. Our mood should not affect communication with the child. Control yourself. Do not tear off your anger and irritation on them. Your requirements should always be the same.
- Unreasonable prohibitions. There are things that can not be done to kids, there are even dangerous ones. But your child should clearly know why not. Ignorance of the consequences pushes us to experiment.
- Hyperopeca. Give your baby freedom.At any age, there are things that they can do themselves. Give yourself free time, stimulate their initiative.
- Lack of time. Children are very important not only our presence, but also communication, interaction. The fact that you come home from work and watch TV together does not mean anything.
Talk, talk about yourself, ask how his day went, what he played, what new he learned.
