For some reason, everyone believes that if you are overweight, you are losing weight. You know, this is somehow the default. For example, you are sitting somewhere in the company, and you are a dummy. We ordered pizza, you reach for a piece, and here: “You can't, you're losing weight!”
Explain how long since my magnificent forms mean that I am in the process of losing weight?
I eat what I want, and if I decide to lose weight, then this is not your business, but my personal one. And I'm not going to blow it up in all corners either.
You just really get tired. You are like a prisoner of your weight. And this despite the fact that you are free in your actions, and people live by stereotypes.
I'm a dummy and I like it
Then I realized. I love my magnificent forms, I just adore them. I like the way my figure looks in tight things.
I like the way men look at me. I like that in me there is a natural and natural beauty that I, for a moment, am proud of. I am not ashamed of my fullness, I live a free life.
But there is always some Irina Aleksandrovna who will decide for you that you need to lose weight. Or maybe this very Irina should think about the fact that not all thoughts are worth speaking out loud? I don’t tell her that she has poorly colored red hair.
How to explain to others that I'm not going to lose weight
Of course you can come up with how, but personally, my answer is NO. Why do you have to explain something to the person who decides for you whether to lose weight or not.
I agree, sometimes you need to outline the boundaries and directly tell a person:
“I’ll ask you not to interfere with my fantasies about how I should look. Thank you, the topic is closed. ”
People often think that they know how others should live. But it only seems to them. It is better to monitor your life and think about how you live, than to think who weighs how much and what eats.
If a person has not approached you specifically and did not ask for help at the expense of his excess weight, this is not your business.
There is no need to make any remarks, to hit a person on the arm when he reaches for another slice of pizza, etc.
But, such a society in which we live. Pyshechki, even if they are beautiful, are still perceived as non-standard.
But the bottom line is that beauty standards do not exist. In the modern world, everyone for himself determines what is beautiful and what is not. Do you agree?
