At first glance it seems that finding your soulmate in this world is almost impossible. Especially if you don’t know where to look for them, how to get to know them and how to behave. However, if you dig a little deeper, in fact it is not so difficult. There are proven methods for dating girls: on the street, on the Internet, in other places.
Choosing the right place for dating
In the modern world, they are most often met on social networks - it's simple, fast and free. Or, if there is a love of risk, wherever you fall: on the street, at the train station, in the park. They get acquainted less often in public places, firstly, because they don’t always know where good girls “live”, and secondly, because it sometimes requires financial expenses. But such places have various advantages, for example, you can get acquainted on the basis of common interests.
It is best to meet girls in the following places:
- Cafes and tea establishments of the middle class are inexpensive, but not “eateries” either. Hooking on a lonely sitting and frankly bored girl is commonplace, but it works. In an expensive restaurant you are unlikely to find a lonely girl, but many people like to meet a guy in a cafe to treat themselves to coffee and possibly meet a guy;
- Group classes, circles, trainings, master classes and all kinds of hobby-related events. Especially those where mostly girls go, there you will be in the spotlight;
- Shops and supermarkets. Lists of signs have been walking on the Internet for a long time, by which you can determine the character of a girl and her preparedness for life, if you look at the products she buys;
- Libraries are no longer relevant, but in bookstores you can meet well-read and intelligent girls, talk to them about book preferences and converge on their own soil;
- Holidays, matches, concerts. Among these crowds, girls are rarely alone, but many come with friends;
- Museums, art galleries, theaters, cinema. At cultural events, only enlightened and interesting girls appear. However, they will have to comply, so if you are not interested in the theme of the event, it is better not to pretend that you understand it;
- The beach is also a good place to meet, where love stories often happen;
- The gym is another place where you can appreciate the figure of a girl you like.
In some places, it’s better not to get to know girls or get to know each other carefully. In particular, these are:
- Bars - girls intoxicated are unpredictable;
- Cafe where the girl works as a waitress;
- Public transport;
- Night clubs.
Features of street dating
Getting to know a girl on the street is a good idea if you are confident in your abilities and know how to approach her and start a conversation. In fact, it is on the street that acquaintances most often happen, because the most beautiful girls walk there. Finding a pretty and attractive candidate is easy, another question is how to get to know a girl on the street?
There are some nuances that should be considered in order not to make a mistake:
- Many ladies are in a hurry about their business, someone is walking in anticipation of friends, this must be taken into account;
- The absence of a ring on the ring finger does not guarantee the absence of a husband or boyfriend, so do not be imposed on such a girl;
- If your manner of communication is too harsh or intrusive, she will refuse to get to know you;
- Hackneyed and banal phrases like “Your mother does not need a son-in-law” or “How to get to the library” will cause disgust rather than a desire to answer a question.
In order for a street acquaintance to succeed, you must approach it in compliance with the rules of a pickup truck:
- Look neat, smell pleasant, behave elegantly;
- Observe personal space, do not overtake a lady too persistently, do not block her path and walk close at a distance of 50 cm;
- It is best to start a conversation by overtaking a girl to create the impression that it was not you who followed her, but she who followed you;
- Sitting down to the girl sitting on the bench, observe the polite distance between you or stand in front of her half a turn;
- Be friendly and smile sincerely;
- Look in the eyes - maintaining eye contact from the side of the girl means her approval;
- Do not actively gesticulate or vice versa hide your hands in your pockets, it is better to take a phone or a lighter in your hands if you are nervous;
- Be realistic. Take a look at the clothes and behavior of the girl to adequately assess your chances;
- In no case do not get acquainted in a state of intoxication;
- Be romantic.
Then the main thing is to come up and get to know each other. For this case, there are interesting patterns that are not beaten up by time, as well as classic phrases. But it’s better to come up with something of your own. For example, start a conversation with the phrase:
- Girl! Are you by any chance not from the Miss Universe contest? It seems to me that you took first place.
- Girl, you have such a beautiful walk, are you not a model?
- Girl, you stole my heart, could you give it back? Although no, you are so beautiful ... Better take your hand too!
You can make a girl laugh, which is always the way:
- Girl, can you imagine, I forgot your name. Do not remind?
- Hello! I am in this city for the first time, can you tell me how to get to your house?
- Girl, imagine I found you on the navigator!
- Girl, I can’t find your number. Could you remind me of it?
As an option - you can ask the girl about the location of the cafe, which is located nearby, and then ask to spend. If the girl agrees, you can invite her to the cafe, and if she refuses, referring to her employment, make an appointment in it the next day.
If a girl is walking down the street, you can walk past her, look around, make a circle, walk past again, look around, and go a third time and say: “Exactly, you are the most beautiful girl in this city! I recognized you! ”
If nothing came to mind, use the commonplace, but working way - ask where some object is located, the location of which you know and which is located along its path. Tie a conversation along the way, compliment her appearance, some details of the image or just her voice.
How to meet a girl on the Internet?
There are an incredible amount of opportunities for dating on the Internet: a variety of social networks, dating sites, phone applications, etc. However, the possibilities are limited here, it will be difficult for a guy to prove himself and evaluate the girl’s appearance and behavior, which may differ from her profile photos. Nevertheless, dating on the Internet is very common - everyone at least once in his life did it, or at least thought about how to start dating a girl on a dating site.
If it’s happening on the social network, for example, VKontakte, it’s important to prepare correctly.
First, create your own page:
- Remove bad pages, hide unnecessary sections, leave important and high-quality information, interesting reposts. Entries from games must be deleted;
- On the wall should hang interesting notes, non-banal and not vulgar content. It is better to avoid actively promoting their sporting interests, obscenities, vulgarity and reposts from rap groups;
- It is better to take photos for social networks with a good photographer: high-quality, in different and stylish clothes, capturing the most diverse moments in life that can tell about you as an interesting person with diverse interests;
- If at least one of them has a beautiful girl next to you, it will mean that you enjoy their success, and if it’s somewhat radically different, it will create an intrigue about your tastes;
- The basic information should be only about where you studied, what you like, what you listen and watch. Do not write a ton of information, listing hundreds of your favorite groups, films, books and activities.
Now that you look confident and successful person, use the search to meet a girl on social networks. At the same time, it is worth paying attention to such criteria as:
- Marital status, if indicated;
- Photos. Sometimes they are so high-quality that it is better to use Google-search in pictures, so as not to be fooled by expectations;
- Common groups and interests. You can start a conversation with them;
- The number of likes, friends, subscribers. If there are many, get ready for the difficulties.
It’s not worth it to focus on one girl - it’s better to start a conversation with several at once, at least with one she can drag out and lead to the coveted number.
In the list of phrases for dating a girl on social networks, the first is any phrase that can be passed off as a positive review about her profile picture, any post on the wall, or common interests. It is not necessary to write it in the PM, you can write in the comments, and then add to friends. If the girl appreciates your compliment, she will accept the request, and then you can start a relaxed conversation about her.
Getting to know on a dating site is much easier than on social networks - there, by default, girls are ready to communicate and consider any guy who writes to them as a possible couple. However, on dating sites there are a lot of strange people who make obscene offers from the first message, so it's better to avoid spicy topics at least for the first few days of communication if you are looking for a soul mate.
Universal phrases to meet on the Internet:
- Hello! Beautiful avatar, very unusual. Lively and bright eyes. Do not you mind to make acquaintance with me_
- Hello! It turns out that we have a lot in common! Let's get acquainted.
- Hey, how are you? You have an interesting profile, could not pass by. Are you addicted too (outline a common topic)?
- Hey. I see you are listening too (band or artist). I thought the girls didn't like it. Nice to see!
Do not keep long correspondence, it is better to get to know each other and take a number, and then proceed to live communication.
How to impress a girl on a first date?
If you managed to invite the girl on a first date, then you definitely interested her. Now the most difficult is ahead: to capture her attention and create such a pleasant impression of herself that she agrees to the second. It is clear that you need to look beautiful and tidy, to behave gallantly and romanticly, but besides this, girls love to be surprised. To do this, you need:
- Invite her to a beautiful but unexpected place that she had not heard of before;
- To take on the costs of a cafe, take-out coffee and other sweets that she likes;
- Give her flowers. If the date includes a walk, it is better to hand them after buying in the nearest store or leaving in the car;
- Go on a date with a nice present. If a girl loves books or something is written on her page about books, then when you come to a meeting with a book you will add pluses, and giving her a book will cause a lively delight;
- Passing by various counters with bright souvenirs, you will certainly buy something that she likes, inexpensive and small, but pleasant;
- To open doors in front of her, to move away a chair, to give a hand when leaving the transport or going down the stairs - the girls like it. And just as girls appreciate gallantry in relation to others: elderly people in vehicles, children playing ball, and so on;
- Give her compliments that she does not expect. To tell her interesting stories and non-banal, but cute jokes.
Be guided by the nature of the girl who will open in communication, and act, improvising. If you do it right, when you come home, for a long time she will sort out the past date in her memory and secretly desire a new one. Which, incidentally, is best negotiated at the end of a date.
