You see her. She is smart, young, beautiful and ... lonely.
In my opinion, lonely is a bad word. Men are somehow more fortunate. If they are not in a family relationship, they are said to be a bachelor. But as a woman, then immediately - lonely.
But not the point. So why are more and more modern girls abandoning marriage, and men, on the contrary, are striving for this? Let's figure it out.
Women are fond of a career
Yes, what is there to hide. Women began to earn more, they are fond of a career, climb up the career ladder or open their own business.
They see no reason to enter into a serious relationship, because this will limit their freedom.
Yes, and there is no banal time to assume family obligations.
Men want stability
Since men in our time begin to work early, by the age of 25-30 many of them have already achieved what they wanted in their careers.
And I want a family, because a messy relationship is already tired.
A man is trying to find a woman for marriage, but cannot. You have to look at the one that is much younger, because 30-year-olds are busy with a career.
And somehow our men were disappointed in modern women. They think that everyone wants one thing from them - money, a good life, travel, etc.
A man is looking for one that would believe in him and accept him.
We live in an era of loneliness
Yes, despite the fact that there is the Internet, people are increasingly lonely.
Everyone is busy with their own affairs and their own lives. And if you have a feeling that you are online with other people, supposedly someone is here, this is a mistake.
We leave our computers on and go to do household chores.
Therefore, men try to build a stable relationship with a woman in order to start a family.
This is especially true in an urban environment. Everyone is obsessed with work, and even once there is no time to build normal relations.
I believe - I do not believe
The problem with creating a family nowadays is that women do not believe men.
They walk right and left, and women want to protect themselves. They think:
“Why enter into a relationship? To be his housewife, to do everything for him, to raise his children, but will he cheat on you? ”
So women refuse such happiness.
More the western way of life and free relations without obligations are adopted. So less is more and less red tape with a divorce afterwards.
Of course there is a problem. People become even more lonely, wallowing in their ostentatious relationships, and not having real intimacy with their loved ones.
How to be men and women
Is it worth or not worth getting married if you never know what awaits you?
Do all women refuse to build relationships?
Of course no. There are those who want to have a family. You just need to find your man.Men can simply not look where they need to, so they cannot find a wife for themselves.
Well, women can only wish one thing - years go by. And if you see that you have found your man, so why put off this important point?
