You need to marry when you are young, when you still don’t understand much. There is a chance that you can become a close person with your spouse and go through life together, through all crises.
In general, in our country, the age when men and women decide to marry, moved to the level of 40 years. If at this point you are not married, then most likely you will not want to. This is especially true for men.
Let's look at the reasons why men do not want to create families if they are already over 40 years old (the reasons were called by the men themselves).
1. The state is not on the side of men. Should a divorce happen, the priority belongs to the woman
Men do not want to create families at this age, because in the event of a divorce, they will have to go through many unpleasant situations - the division of property, alimony, etc.
It also turns out in practice that the state more supports women and children. A man will be the one who will take away money and housing.
2. Calmness is worth a lot, and no one can stand the brain
At the age of 40, a man wants peace and that no one gets on his nerves.
But having a family, living completely in peace and quiet will not work. Everyday cares, children - all this requires attention and involvement.
It turns out that a man abandons his family, if only his peace, silence and peace of mind would not be disturbed.
3. Men think that most women are dirty
I don’t know how it happened, but that’s how men think of many single women. Like, most of them were dirty. They themselves will dress and make up, but you can be horrified how to get to their house.
4. 40-year-old men believe that marriage takes away his rights
I don’t know the truth what rights, but many men believe that marriage will rob him of them.
In marriage, a man becomes a slave, who is obliged to serve everyone - indulge the whims of his wife, take care of children, relatives and friends. And of course, all this requires money. Men simply do not want to lose themselves, their rights and their money for the sake of the family.
5. Marriage - this is to give, not just to take. A man at this age does not want to give
So it turns out in practice that by the age of 40 a man is more affluent than when he was 20 years old. He already has a profession, stable work, most likely his own housing.
A man does not want to share all this with a woman. Not to mention the emotional component of the relationship, when you need to invest in another person, devote time to him, communicate with him.
These are the reasons men named as arguments why they do not want to start a family.
Personally, I have only 1 question for these men:
And what inspires you to live, if not love for a woman and children?
