No, not everything is as obvious as you think.
Women, you are most likely mistaken. He wants from you not only what your subconscious is whispering to you now.
I have repeatedly asked this question to men, in an attempt to find the very “secret answer”.
Did I succeed or not ?! Who knows.
In any case, here are my 5 reasons after talking with men, what they want from a woman. And it's not about one-day relationships, but about serious relationships.
1. Respect
It is very important for men to be respected. After all, every day, going to work, they are in the midst of great competition among men.
A man is constantly under pressure.
He was able to achieve his goals and reach great heights - it does not matter. He wants to come home and so that there he is “the most.”
If a man feels like a head at home and receives the respect that his heart longs for, he will always want to return to this relationship.
2. Atmosphere
It is very important that when a man comes home, he can relax.
The atmosphere, of course, is created by a woman. This must be learned, it does not come in 1 day. But anything is possible if you want.
Do not shout to your man about the accumulated problems as soon as he crossed the threshold.
Let him rest, eat dinner, relax.
And only then, if there is a need to talk and solve a number of problems, you can do it. This will strengthen the relationship.
3. Delicious food
You can scream and resent as much as you like, but for men it is important.
And the matter is not only in the dish itself.
It's about the care and warmth you put in to make delicious.
It is important to learn how to cook his favorite dish. It is important that a warm dinner awaits him in the evening. This is a powerful contribution to the relationship.
4. Proximity
Intimacy is a component of relationships, therefore, without it in any way. If a woman can give this to a man, the man will be with her.
Intimacy is born from words, from care, this is not only a joint time in bed.
Send messages that are nice to receive, make small amenities.
All this strengthens the relationship, creating the very closeness and desire for a reasonable continuation.
5. That she shut up on time
If a woman is able to do 50 things at a time, then men are not so arranged.
If he came home, he needs time to recover and rest.
Yes, sometimes you need to talk and tell something important. And a woman is trying to fill a man with a thousand words.
But the one who knows how to shut up in time and close her mouth is priceless.
Women make this mistake in thinking that a man is her friend. But you need to learn how to leave your man alone and give him the time he needs to recover.
