Treason on the part of a loved one in real life is a depressing incident, leaving a deep mark in the soul. She is akin to betrayal, is not forgotten, and is forgiven in fairly rare cases. But why dream of treason in a dream? You can find the answer to this question in the current article.
The meaning of the image of betrayal in a dream
Cheating on a loved one is one of the secret or overt fears of people prone to jealousy. According to the interpretation of dreams about this phenomenon with point of view of psychoanalysis, part of dreams is a reflection of a real fear of finding a lover or lover with another or with another. Perhaps, before going to bed, the dreamer thought about a possible betrayal, convinced himself of its possibility and rethought his relationship with the second half.
Almost all psychoanalysts betray a similar meaning to the image of treason. The exception is Sigmund Freud, who associates this phenomenon with sexology. According to the scientist, a person who sees his beloved with another in a dream may have problems with potency.
However, there is another interpretation of dreams about treason - esoteric. This point of view is much older than psychoanalysis and is rooted in pagan antiquity. According to this theory, any dream in which a person sees the betrayal of a loved one with another warns of future problems. However, a dream about betrayal can turn out to be both a prophetic and a dream-shifter. This means that the dreams in him in real life will come true exactly the opposite.
Be that as it may, so that the interpretation of sleep is as accurate as possible, the plot details of the dream should be taken into account. In the case of a dream about a betrayal of a loved one, this is:
- The person who changed and his status in relation to the dreamer;
- The behavior of a person who saw treason in a dream;
- The emotional state of the dreamer after waking up.
Let us consider in more detail each of the items listed above.
Depending on who changed
The personality of a traitor in a dream is key to the interpretation of a dream. First of all, it is important to consider who exactly this person is for the dreamer:
- Official or common-law spouse;
- Legal husband;
- Beloved girl or bride;
- Beloved guy or groom;
- Former passion.
Consider the meaning of dreams in which each of the listed people changes the dreamer.
Wife
If a man dreams cheating wife, you should pay attention to with whom exactly your beloved has changed:
- If a woman cheated on a man a dream means that in fact the spouse is indifferent to his passion;
- Cheating with a friend of his wife dream of the beginning of a strip of failures and serious losses. Sigmund Freud interprets a similar image as a signal of the onset of problems with potency in the dreamer;
- Sex spouse with a stranger speaks of the dreamer's unreasonable jealousy; he is ready to see betrayal even where it is not;
- If wife cheats on husband out of revenge in a dream, in fact nothing threatens the couple. Their family life is harmonious;
- The image of a woman cheating on husband with her friend according to Freud's dream book, he speaks of the latent Oedipus complex of the dreamer;
- If dreamed wife sleeping with a stranger a dream may indicate that the husband himself was thinking about cheating on his wife. Be careful, not only your personal happiness is at stake, but also well-being in general. The wife will not forgive such a betrayal and will try to take revenge on you.
According to the Seasonal Dream Book, a dream about a wife's betrayal, which was dreamed of in the spring, can turn out to be prophetic. It is in the spring that one should take a closer look at the actions of the woman. Perhaps she had personal secrets from her husband.
Husband
If a woman dreams of treason husband, it is also important to consider with whom exactly the husband is cheating - with a girlfriend, with a dreamer's sister or with an unknown woman, etc.:
- If in a dream you find your husband having sex with your sister, sleep means that you are waiting for serious problems at work, up to dismissal. Try not to engage in open confrontation with superiors;
- Cheating husband with girlfriend in a dream means that in reality you think this woman is better than yourself and secretly jealous of her husband. In fact, a man prefers you, your fears are groundless;
- A man cheating on his wife in a dream with his friend - similar night dreams dream of a serious quarrel between these people;
- Cheating on a Stranger indicates an unresolved conflict within the family;
- If a woman dreams that husband is cheating on her with a stranger the likelihood of a quick dissolution of marriage;
- If in a dream the husband cheated on his wife with his friend, sleep portends great trouble;
- If your current husband cheated on you in a dream with your ex-spouse, expect self-doubt and fear of loneliness.
According to the Autumn Interpreter, if you had a husband’s betrayal in the fall, it’s likely that the dream will be prophetic. Take a close look at your partner. Perhaps he is hiding something important.
Guy
If a girl dreamed of cheating on her fiancé, the meaning of the dream may be as follows:
- See your boyfriend having sex with another girl means that in reality he will idolize you;
- If you dreamed that someone tells you that the groom has changed, a dream portends a collapse of hopes and self-doubt;
- If the young man himself admits to treason, in reality, luck will accompany you in all your endeavors;
- If dreaming a quarrel with a guy because of his affair on the side, a dream means that in real life you worry about what the groom can change you.
The thing may be a dream about a betrayal of a young man who had a dream in the summer.
Girl
If a guy dreams that the bride is cheating on him, the meaning of sleep can be as follows:
- If a young man witnesses a girl's betrayal, this means that in real life he lacks the thrill;
- If the bride confesses to treason a dream predicts a guy a series of despondency and continuous failures;
- Sleep in which the girl denies the obvious fact of betrayal, means that the dreamer should be on the alert - ill-wishers are plotting against him;
- If the cheated bride accuses the groom of cheating on her too, the value of sleep is most often positive. Such a dream speaks of harmony in relationships and predicts a quick marriage.
Dreams are dreams about the betrayal of girls who dream in the winter.
Former or former
If a man or woman dreams of a partner from a distant past who is cheating on a dreamer, the interpretation of night dreams can be as follows:
- If the guy dream of breaking up with a girl, with which he had long since parted in real life, a dream means that because of the inability to part with the past, the dreamer may have problems in the future;
- If a girl dreamed that she her former lover changed according to Wang’s dream book, a dream means that she is still not able to forget this person;
- Dream about cheating on ex-husband to married woman dreaming about a quarrel with her current spouse. According to Freud's dream book, the initiator of the conflict will be a wife who compares her current husband with the past;
- Dream about the betrayal of the former spouse divorced woman without a couple dreaming of a new admirer in her life;
- A man’s dream about how his ex-wife cheats on him, heralds an early meeting with her. Perhaps he wants to renew relations. If a man is remarried, the dream portends a quarrel with his current spouse and the loss of her confidence.
The dream in which he dreams cheating on strangers portends a quarrel in the family. The cause of contention will be the unstable financial position of the dreamer.
According to the dreamer's behavior in a dream
In order to correctly decipher the dream of betrayal, it is necessary to take into account the behavior of the dreamer. This paragraph is key to the interpretation of night dreams. In this way:
- Watch betrayal with a calm soul means that you are not afraid of change and boldly face your fears;
- Protest in a dream at the sight of treason a loved one means in real life to be in a humiliating situation;
- Hit cheater on face means that in real life you will seriously quarrel with this person;
- Beat the cheater and the one he had sex with means that you make a wise decision at the crucial moment. In your personal life, everything will be fine with you;
- Complain to a friend about the betrayal of the second half means that you are too demanding of your soulmate. Do not bring discomfort to your loved ones with your unjustified jealousy;
- Cry upon learning of treason, dreams of an unexpected and pleasant surprise from a loved one;
- Kill the traitor means that the relationship with this person has become obsolete. Possible a quick divorce from a spouse or a serious quarrel with a lover, which will lead to separation;
- Plan treason according to the dream book of the magician and psychic Longo, it means that global changes will soon come in the dreamer's life. If a man had such a dream, he would soon turn the dream into reality and leave his beloved for the sake of a new love adventure.
If you dreamed that loved one cheated on you, but you forgave him, then in real life you value the relationship with him very much.
Emotional state after sleep
The emotional state of the dreamer after awakening is of great importance. Depending on this factor, one can judge the real level of a person’s jealousy, and also find out how negative the significance of a dream is. Thus, if a person after waking up:
- Feels comfortable the dream is positive. Nothing bad will happen in the dreamer's personal life;
- A bit excited he should pay attention to his own attitude to loved ones. The probability of pathological jealousy is high;
- Sweaty and tremblingas after a nightmare, the interpretation of sleep is completely negative;
- Angry and losing his temperaccording to Freud's dream book, such a person is a pathological jealous;
- Rejoices a dream can mean that a person seeks new sensations and is open to sensual pleasures;
- Crying a dream portends a speedy breakup with a loved one.
If a person after a dream about betrayal is completely indifferent and calmin relation to the dreamer, the image has no additional meaning.
Why does a woman dream of her betrayal?
Women's dreams are often deeper and more symbolic than men's dreams. This is due to the extreme sensitivity and susceptibility of the fair sex. Therefore, the images that appear in dreams can be interpreted somewhat differently. For example, if a man dreams that he is cheating on his wife or bride, Freud's dream book interprets this image as a desire suppressed in real life to change her. The only exception is treason with a prostitute - it portends a man a shame.
In women, everything is not so simple:
- If a married lady dreamed that she had cheated on her spouse, a dream foreshadows a strip of failures. At the same time, an unfavorable period in a woman’s life completely depends on herself. Somnologists recommend reconsidering their worldview and some views on life;
- If lady in a dream enjoyed cheating, she should think about the quality of her intimate life with her husband. Perhaps not everything is as smooth as we would like;
- Own betrayal in revenge on the faithful may dream of receiving forbidden pleasures that will not adversely affect family relationships;
- Change a husband or groom with his friend, according to the Worldly Dream Book, means that significant problems will arise in the house through the fault of the woman herself;
- Sorry about the affair on the side, for a woman means that in fact she wants to change her husband or groom and regrets their marriage;
- If there was a betrayal, as a result of whichthe deceived man hit or killed the culprit, in real life this couple will have harmonious and long-lasting relationships;
- Swear in a dream with her husband because of her own betrayal means that a turning point has come in a relationship. A quick divorce is possible, but only a woman has the opportunity to save the marriage.
If a woman dreamed that she cheating on a spouse with an enemy of the family, it is a very disturbing dream. In the near future the family will suffer a great misfortune, the cause of which will be the machinations of that same ill-wisher.
Interpretation of dreams about treason in different dream books
The interpretation of dreams about treason can be found in almost every dream book. However, there are interpretations that contradict each other. This phenomenon is explained by the difference in the points of view of somnological researchers. As mentioned above, some of them give preference to psychoanalysis, others - to esotericism.
For the most accurate interpretation of the image of adultery in a dream, one should study the interpretations of both psychoanalytic and esoteric dream books.
Recommended publications in terms of psychoanalysis are:
- Sigmund Freud's Dream Book. The famous psychotherapist is of the opinion that betrayal in a dream represents the latent sexual aspirations of the dreamer or is a symptom of his pathological jealousy;
- Dream Interpretation of David Loff. The psychoanalyst considers such dreams as a projection of a person’s real fears;
- Dream Book of Gustav Miller. The somnologist and psychoanalyst is of the opinion that intuition is actively working in a person in a dream. Therefore, dreams can talk about the future.
Recommended esoteric publications include:
- Dream Wanga, according to which such dreams are often positive;
- Dream Interpretation of the Magician Yuri Longo, considering treason in a dream, as an image-changeling;
- 21st Century Dream Interpretation, the latest edition, giving the most detailed interpretation of the image of betrayal in a dream.
In order to determine the interpretation of one’s own dream about treason, in addition to the meaning of the image, take into account your physical and emotional state on the eve of the dreamer. This will help you choose the right interpretation.