A wedding, a white dress, a bouquet of flowers and joyful guests - this is how family life begins, but its further development has thousands of options that are different from each other. Someone gets a stable and calm happiness, others are constantly fighting for their marriage. If life together is bursting at your seams, you are unable to find a common language with your husband or he is in a difficult situation, resort to comforting prayer.
The power of prayer for a husband
Turning to higher forces, you will find the necessary answers, but not everyone is able to recognize them and distinguish signals. Prayer is not an instant panacea that removes all troubles and misfortunes in an instant, but it has tremendous power. It is believed that women's prayer contains energy in great concentration. Nicholas the Miracle Worker equated the power of petitioning a husband for a husband to maternal prayer, which is impossible to find cleaner and deeper. But the strength of a woman is not so safe: if the spouse has gone to another woman, it is not recommended to use prayer to control and subordinate his will.
By praying, you surrender yourself to God's authority, denying anger and pride. Only in this way will the appeal be perceived in the right light and be heard. Realize that true love does not carry selfishness, therefore, prayer for the husband should be released from any claims.
Why pray for a husband? In society (most of it), it is instituted so that a man carries the bulk of the responsibilities. Accordingly, the responsibility falling on him is higher. To cope with this is not easy, so a woman becomes a support. Saying a prayer for your spouse means asking for the blessings of your union from Heaven.
How to pray for a husband?
A woman who asks the higher powers for help for her spouse should say the prayer correctly:
- It is advisable to read the canonical prayer, but this is not a prerequisite. You have the right to use your own words, pronounce them aloud, or speak in thoughts. True prayer is distinguished by sincerity, not a thoroughly memorized text.
- Even if you are offended by your spouse (for example, in a situation of treason), do not talk about him badly. A bad thought, even if it is not voiced, has a destructive energy, which has no place during prayer.
- Frequent prayer is the guarantee that the saints will hear the request, since the strength of the faithful wife is unlimited.
- When praying, you need to realize that you are not making a love spell or conspiracy, but are turning to the Almighty. Be pious and humble, restrain emotions and do not give vent to feelings, even if it’s hard on the soul.
- In prayer, mention the name of the husband several times. Calling the other half “bunny”, “cat”, “beloved” and other affectionate words is not recommended. Leave this momentum for private communication.
When a prayer for a husband is read, the power of a praying wife, if she has real feelings for him, takes on an unprecedented magnitude. Remember this and never ask a higher power to punish or punish a spouse for his misconduct. You cannot return what was said, and then you will greatly repent if misfortune happens to your husband.
Kinds of Prayers
If you want to help your beloved spouse, you can pray for him about such things as:
- Preservation of health, protection against diseases;
- Good luck on the road (prayer-amulet);
- Success in work and career advancement;
- Financial independence, resolution of material problems;
- Prayer for strengthening marriage bonds;
- Protection against evil eye and damage;
- Prayer for a strong will is a husband so that he does not fall into the temptation of treason.
Most often, the wife in prayer addresses the saints, asking for the dear person health, more valuable than which there is nothing in the world. You can pray to several saints for healing or good health for your husband. The most reliable way is to appeal to Blessed Matrona of Moscowwho sends deliverance to the afflicted without refusing anyone. Her prayer is:
“O blessed one, mother Matrono, hear and receive us now, sinners, praying to you, skilled in receiving and listening to all those who are suffering and grieving in all your life, with faith and hope for your intercession and help from those who come, quick help and miraculous healing are all giving; may your mercy not fade even now to us, unworthy, troubled in this much troubled world, and nowhere finding comfort and compassion in our sorrow of souls and help in bodily illnesses: heal our disease, save us from the temptations and torment of the devil, we’re passionately fighting, help me bring it The cross, to demolish all the hardships of life and not lose the image of God in it, preserve the Orthodox faith until the end of our days, hope and hope in God that you have strong and unfeigned love for your neighbors; help us, upon departing from this life, achieve the Kingdom of Heaven with all who pleased God, glorifying the mercy and goodness of the Heavenly Father, in the Trinity of Slavimago, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, forever and ever. Amen".
You can communicate in prayer with the Matronushka both in the church and at home, but if you visited the temple, do not hesitate and light a candle in front of the altar, asking to god:
“My Lord, my Creator, I ask for your help, grant healing to the servant of God (name), washed his blood with your rays. Only with your help will healing come to him. Touch him with miraculous power, bless all his ways to salvation, recovery, healing. You will give health to his body, blessed lightness to his soul, divine balm to his heart. The pain will recede, and the strength will return, and the wounds will heal his body and soul, and Your help will come. Thy rays from Heaven will reach him and give him protection, bless for healing from his ailments, strengthen his faith. May the Lord hear this prayer. Glory and gratitude to the power of the Lord. Amen!"
The power of motherly love is immense. The Blessed Mother of the Virgin hears the woman’s pain and sends her peace. Pray for the cure of the spouse to the Mother of God is necessary with the words:
“Oh, Mother of God, our help and protection, we’ll always ask, be our deliverer, trust in Thou and always invariably Call on you: have mercy and help, pity and spare, bow your ear and accept our sorrowful and tearful prayers, and also , calm and delight us, loving your beginningless Son and our God. Amen".
Also considered very strong prayer to Cosme and Damian for the health of her husband.
To the lord god
For a man, a successful career is a paramount factor proving his viability as a professional and personality. It is no secret that many members of the stronger sex place their careers in the first place in the list of personal priorities, pushing to the background family, spouse and even children. We will not argue about how appropriate and correct this is. If a woman enters into a situation and supports her husband in everything, prayer for her husband about work and health will be useful:
“Lord, my heavenly Father, I ask you to help my husband find and fulfill his destiny. Bless his work, may it bring him success and financial prosperity.May he be satisfied by doing his job! Let people respect and value him! Open his heart, Lord, so that everything that he does coincides with Your divine purpose. Give him optimism, Lord, grant energy and strength so that he works in joy for the benefit of himself and the whole of society. Help him enjoy success and value what he has achieved. May his every step and sigh be directed towards you, Lord! Bless him on his way! Help him gain confidence and open the doors of the future in front of him! Protect him, Lord, from all enemies and ill-wishers! Help him grow and improve! I pray, Lord, that I can be a worthy companion to my husband! To be able to support, delight and inspire him to new achievements! May our union be strong and pleasing to you! I thank you, Lord, for everything that you give us and surrender to the will of Your saint! Be blessed, Lord, forever and ever! Amen!"
Remember that praying to the Lord about financial and career well-being for a loved one will bear fruit only if you are sincere in your words. Many wives are jealous of the spouse for work and constantly reproach him because of employment and carelessness. It is impossible to experience such emotions and offer the said prayer to God. First offense and only then appeal to the Creator with any request.
Nicholas the Wonderworker
Nikolai Ugodnik is considered one of the most responsive saints. You can turn to him in moments of despair, joy, with gratitude, or for help. He will send mercy and take away sorrows, relieve burdens and give joy. One of the most famous prayers recited to Nicholas is called protect husband on a long journey:
“Oh, St. Nicholas, hear us (the names of travelers), And pray for us to the Lord God, that He be merciful to us, Do not give back according to our deeds, and be condescending. Deliver us from misfortunes and sorrows along the way. Let not be bogged down in the abyss of sin. Pray for us, Nicholas, for a peaceful life, for salvation, for our souls! Amen!"
Bearing the proud title of man and husband is not easy. Constant rivalry with others like oneself and competition in work, on the personal front - all this can take away strength and drive a husband into depression. To alleviate his difficulties, turn to Nicholas the Wonderworker as follows:
“Oh, all-blessed father Nicholas, the shepherd and teacher of all who, by faith, are flowing to your intercession and are invoking you with warm prayer! Soon flail and deliver the flock of Christ from the wolves that destroy e; and protect every country of Christianity from your holy prayers, from worldly rebellion, a coward, the invasion of foreigners and internecine warfare, from gladness, flood, fire, sword and in vain death; and also have mercy on me, if you have three men in the prison of those who are seated, and delivered them if you have the king’s wrath and sowing the sword, have mercy on me, mind, word and deed in the darkness of sins, in essence, deliver me the wrath of God and eternal execution, as long as your intercession and help. By His mercy and grace, Christ God will give a quiet and sinless life to us to live this spring and save me from shuiyago standing, he will make the gallows with all the saints. Amen".
The saint will not refuse a prayer for health for his beloved spouse:
“O universal, great miracle-worker, the saint of Christ, Father Nicholas! Pray thee, awaken the hope of all Christians, faithful protector, hungry fellow, weeping merriment, sick doctor, floating ruler over the sea, wretched and orphan feeder and all ambulance and patron, let us live a peaceful life and let us see the glory of the elect of God in heaven , and with them incessantly chant the one in the Trinity of the worshiped God forever and ever. Amen".
After praying about a specific subject, do not forget to also say thank you notes to St. Nicholas, and during your next visit to the church, light a candle in front of its icon.
Cheating
Adultery is a difficult cross for a woman. It is difficult to imagine that a loved one will betray, mentally or physically.It’s hard to survive the betrayal, for some it becomes such a strong blow that they cannot recover from it for a long time or even decide to end the marriage. If a woman feels that the spouse is potentially capable of treason, she should read for her own comfort prayer of Our Ladywho will take on her pain:
“Virgin Mary, rejoice! Grace Mary, the Lord is with you. Blessed are you in wives. And blessed is the fruit of your womb, as the Savior gave birth to our souls. I renounce the slave (name) from treason, I save his soul, I protect my family. As you are shallow and gray, so Anyone who has a breast shallows before me. There is more in the heart of a slave (name). ”
Does not interfere with the assistance and St. Nicholas. Address to the person with the following words:
“Miracle Worker Nikolai, I appeal to you with a plea. Forgive me for the perishable request and relieve the mournful suspicion. Protect my husband from infidelity and save his soul from deceit. Save him from the beauty of the tempting and pacify the passionate ardor during the betrayal of sin.
Do not punish me for this distrust, but do not refuse miraculous intercession. Thy will be done. Amen".
A woman reading a prayer-amulet from treason should be aware that this is a religious conversion, not a love spell. To resort to magic, even if it is “white”, should only be in exceptional situations. Try to look at the problem from a different angle: there is a possibility that it is possible to build relationships through frank conversation or the advice of a family psychologist.
Marriage preservation
Family is a tremendous value, the preservation of which lies on the shoulders of both spouses. We are all ordinary people with our own shortcomings and disadvantages, so in family life there are not only pleasant romantic moments, but also quarrels, resentments, hardships and difficulties, often turning communication between a couple into a true branch of hell. We are affected by hundreds of factors: stress at work, money problems, poor health - but breaking up on a loved one is not permissible, although this happens quite often.
For peace to prevail in marriage, it is important to seek compromises. If you are tormented by your own complexes and grievances, this is not easy. A prayer to the Lord will help. The following Orthodox text is considered the most powerful prayer for preserving marriage ties:
“Lord, King of Heaven, the Comforter, help me in a good deed, in the salvation of my family. Hear me, sinful and unworthy, praying to You at this hour. With tears in my eyes, I pray to you: enlighten the servant of God (name), my husband. Gather the erring, and on the right guide in the way. Teach him to be a good and worthy husband for his wife. Awaken in the heart of the servant of God (name) love for me, his wife, and show all the corruption of his deeds. Melt his coldness, resurrect his love. Don’t let us destroy our family, give us a family good. Lord, protect my husband from the devilish temptation and sinful life. But most of all, fall and protect the servant of God (name) from all misfortunes and crafty demons who want to devour him and bring him to hell alive. Admonish my husband to live according to thy precepts: to love your wife, to take care of her and bear responsibility for her. Understand Thy servant (name) to start all over again, forget and forgive all offenses against me. Lord, with all my heart I pray to you, do not let our family fall apart. Hold me and my husband together. Grant us love for each other, patience and strength to live together according to Your commandments. I trust in your help, Lord. Amen".
Family life brings both peace and frustration. Weigh them on the scales. If the positive outweighs, fight for your marriage with all available means. Prayer for the preservation of the family hearth is the simplest, but no less effective method. Keep in mind that marriage is a permanent job, and you need to work not only to correct the mistakes of your husband, but also to correct your own shortcomings.
