Each person at least once in his life in personal experience felt such a painful phenomenon as a serious quarrel with loved ones. But sometimes this litter can turn into something more terrible and destructive - into enmity.
But is it possible to reconcile people through prayer? Which Saints need to be addressed in this case? How to prepare for reading such prayer texts? What if the husband cannot get along with his wife, or the relatives refuse to make a reasonable compromise with each other? What other Orthodox methods exist to restore peace between family and friends?
Detailed answers to each of the above questions are available in our article.
How does the prayer for reconciliation help?
Enmity and contention are destructive in themselves. But there is nothing worse when once close people begin to quarrel. Due to such strife, families, long friendships and friendships are destroyed. But the saddest thing is that often the most terrible enemies are former lovers and friends. Therefore, the warring parties must be reconciled as quickly as possible, before hatred has not yet filled their souls. In this case, the Orthodox prayer for reconciliation of the warring parties can help.
Prayer for reconciliation of the warring parties is a powerful verbal formula that helps to resolve even the most terrible conflict at the energy level.
Prayer text helps:
- Mitigate the anger of both sides of the conflict. Having calmed down, relatives can take a more critical look at the current situation and try to resolve it;
- The awakening of love and compassion in the hearts of the warring. These warm feelings lead to reconciliation, no matter how strong mutual offenses would be;
- Destruction and removal of black libel, if the cause of hostile strife was a spell or a curse;
- The formation of a protective field against black magic and other negative effects on the human aura, which makes it impossible to impose such a dark libel in the future.
Thus, for a believer, the use of prayer for the reconciliation of warring parties is the most correct decision.
How to read a prayer for reconciliation of conflicting?
Any prayer should be able to read correctly. For this reason We recommend that you familiarize yourself with the prayer rules below:
- The prayer should be read with very good intentions. One cannot wish for the reconciliation of certain people due to the conflict of others. You cannot ask for illness or punishment for the instigator of hostility. On the contrary, in prayer for the reconciliation of the warring, one must ask for good for all;
- One must pray with sincere faith. Prayer texts will not help the atheist or doubting agnostic, and will strengthen his lack of faith even more. Why so? But because in the absence of an energetic desire for God, the astral connection between the worshiper and the Higher Forces is not formed;
- Anger - the main emotion of enmity - refers to mortal sins. Begging for other people's sins, you must repent of your own.To do this, within 7 days before the first reading of the prayer for the reconciliation of the warring, you need to fast, visit the temple, put candles for the health of the conflicting and repent of their own sins before the Face of the Lord;
- Do not try to point to God. When praying, it is important to show respect for the Creator and his Minions, and not to demand, but to ask for the Highest Grace. Otherwise, the Almighty may be angry;
- Prayers can be offered at church or at home. In the second case, it is recommended to pre-clean, since the Light Forces of disorder do not tolerate;
- Powerful Orthodox prayers for reconciliation of warring parties can be read only by baptized believing Christians.
It is recommended that church utensils be used during the Ascension service. The icon of the Saint to whom the prayer is being read should be placed in front of you, light a thin church candle in front of the Image, light a piece of incense. The corners of the room in which the prayer for the end of the conflict and the reconciliation of the warring parties will be read are recommended to be sprinkled with holy water first.
What prayers to read?
In the case of reconciliation of the warring, prayers should be read, sent to the Almighty Lord God or the following Holy Lord's Pleasures:
- The Blessed Virgin Mary;
- Rev. Peter and Fevronia of Murom;
- Great Martyrs and Martyrs Boris and Gleb;
- To the Confessors and Martyrs Guria, Himself and Aviv;
- Martyr Paraskeva Friday.
Let us consider in more detail these strong prayers for reconciliation of the warring.
With a feud between husband and wife
There is a special energetic connection between husband and wife married in church. Therefore, in the case of hostility of spouses, the likelihood of accidentally imposing a family curse is increased. Unfortunately, to do this is extremely simple - it is enough to insult with a dirty word in anger, wish death or send to hell. To prevent this, it is necessary to reconcile the warring parties with the help of a prayer text.
Most of all, as a prayer for reconciliation with her husband, an appeal to the Blessed Peter and Fevronia is suitable. The union of these Saints has long been considered a symbol of traditional values.
The text of the prayer to Peter and Fevronia for the reconciliation of the warring husband and wife:
“Oh, great wonderworkers and saints of God, holy Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia! I am resorting to you, I pray with strong hope. Offer prayers to the Lord God about me, a sinner. Ask His goodness: faith is right, hope is good, love is not hypocritical! Help me with my beloved, a servant of God (name), to be together. Amen"
With the enmity of loved ones
In case of enmity between lovers who are not married in a church marriage, the following prayers are read:
- Virgin Mary on the icon "Softening Evil Hearts":
“O long-suffering Mother of God, Exceeding all the daughters of the earth, in Her purity and in many sufferings, You have transferred to the lands, receive our painful sigh and keep us under the shelter of Your mercy. You don’t have any other refuge and warmth of representation, but, as you have the boldness to be born of you, help us and save us with our prayers, and we will sing in the Trinity to the one God now and ever, forever and ever. Amen"
- Martyr Paraskeva:
“O holy and blessed martyr of Christ Paraskevo, beautiful virgins, praised the martyrs, purity of image, generous grains, wise wonder, faith of the Christian keeper, idolatical flattery of the accuser, gospel of the Divine Protector, commandment of the Lord to be jealous of God, Your Christ God lightly having fun, decorated with a pure crown of virginity and martyrdom! We pray to you, holy martyr, be a sad woman for us to Christ God. His most blissful sight is merrily entertained; pray to the All-Merciful One, and, in a word, open the eyes of the blind, that he will deliver us from the disease, our tows, both bodily and spiritual; kindle with your holy prayers the dark gloom that has come from our sins, ask the Father of Light for the light of grace with our spiritual and bodily combes; enlighten us darkened by sins; by the light of God's grace, yours, for the sake of holy prayers, will give sweet sight to those who are unholy.O great saint of God! O brave maiden! O strong martyr Saint Paraskevo! With your holy prayers, be our helper to us sinners, intercede and pray for the cursed and vigilant negligent sinners, speed up our help, for the semen are weakly weak. The prayers of the Lord, pure maiden, pray the Merciful, holy martyr, pray the bridegroom, the virgin Christ’s bride, and with your prayers help you, but the darkness of sinful abundance, in the light of the true faith and deeds of God, let us see into the light of eternal day, never-ending, in the city of joy not less than now you shine brightly with glory and endless joy, glorify and glorify with all the Heavenly Forces the Tri-sanctified One Deity, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and ever. Amen."
Both prayers for reconciliation with a loved one are read in the corresponding image of the Holy God.
To the Lord
A prayer for the end of hostility, addressed to the Lord God, is universal. It is recommended to read it in case of any conflict, even between people completely alien to each other.
Prayer to the Lord:
“Lord Jesus Christ, son of God. Come down to those who ask us, and let all sinful acts go. Have mercy and defeat the enmity between your slaves (name one by one the names of those whom you wish to reconcile). Cleanse their souls from the filth and power of the devil, protect them from evil people and envious eyes. Like a quarrel over an evil deed, return it to the wicked adversaries. Thy will be done, now, and ever, and forever and ever. Amen."
St. Boris and Gleb
A strong prayer for reconciliation between the warring Martyrs Boris and Gleb is read in cases where close friends or blood brothers or sisters conflict.
Prayer text of an appeal to these saints:
“Oh, sacred twin, brethren, beautiful, virtues of the sufferers Boris and Gleb, who served Christ by faith, purity and love from youth, and with his blood, like a crimson, beautified, and now reigning with Christ! Do not forget us who live on the earth, but like the warmth of an intercessor, with your strong intercession before Christ God, keep the young in holy faith and purity intact from any pretext of unbelief and impurity, protect us all from all sorrow, bitterness and unnecessary death, tame all hostility and malice, raised by the action of the devil from neighbors and strangers. We pray to you, Christ-loving passion-bearers, ask the blessed Master for all of us to forgive our sins, unanimity and health, to get rid of the invasion of aliens, internecine abuse, ulcers and gladness. Equip with your intercession (this city and) all those who honor your holy memory, forever and ever. Amen."
Another prayer for reconciling rival friends is appeal to the Great Martyrs Gurius, Himself and Aviv:
“On the Holy Martyrdom and Confessor of Christ Guria, Samon and Aviv! The petitions for us are prayers and prayers before God, in the tenderness of our hearts, looking at your pure image, we humbly pray to you: hear us sinful and unworthy servants who are in misfortunes, sorrows and misfortunes, and when our grave and innumerable sins are seen, reveal us your great mercy, raise us up from the depths of sin, enlighten our mind, soften the evil and contrite heart, stop the envy, enmity and contention that lives in us. Settle us in peace, love, and the fear of God, plead with the merciful God, that he may cover many of our sins with His inexpressible mercy. May the Holy Church keep from unbelief, heresies and schisms. May peace, prosperity, fertility of the earth be granted to our country; spouses love and consent; children obedience; offended patience; offending the fear of God; grieving complacency; rejoicing abstinence. May He cover all of us with His omnipotent right hand, and save us from harm, destruction, coward, flood, fire, sword, invasion of foreigners and civil wars, and unnecessary death.May he protect us with the militia of His holy Angels, in our hedgehog, at our end from our life, we will be rid of the machinations of the crafty and his secret air ordeals, and not condemned to present the Throne of the Lord of Glory, even the faces of the saints Angel with all the saints take out the blessed and magnificent Name of the Father and Son and Holy Spirit, now and ever and forever and ever. Amen"
How to restore peace between relatives?
Hostility among relatives is not a rare occurrence. It has a detrimental effect not only on the warring, but also on other relatives. But how to restore peace between relatives? As mentioned above, the best way for a sincerely believing Christian is to periodically recite a strong prayer for reconciliation. If the faith of the worshiper is strong, peace and prosperity will soon reign in the house.
In addition, you can try knowledgeable ways to reconcile people dear to the heart:
- Talk with them, try to explain to each of them the position of the opponent. However, one must be careful - if the conflicting ones are in a great rage, then they may quarrel with those who are trying to help them;
- Go to church with them or yourself, put candles for the health of the conflicting;
- Distract loved ones from a quarrel, spend cultural time with them - first with each separately, and then carefully offer a general meeting.
In any case, the main thing is not to overdo it. It also happens that passions will boil over, and good relations between warring people will quickly be restored. And if you help them with sincere prayer, this will happen even faster.
